I Like People Who Have A Touch Of Healthy Madness

We should all have that touch of madness that allows us not to feel oppressed by unforeseen changes and to make the most of life , with its good and bad things.

Madness, if it is healthy, turns into joy and freedom. She belongs to a mold-breaking personality type who brings light into the dreary lives of most people.

Often it is said that it is always better to have mad people near you than bitter ones. But before falling into prejudices, it is necessary to know what are the stories behind each face.

Healthy madness is, above all, an attitude. It is the ability to put things in perspective to give them a touch of perspective, but also contagious optimism that allows us to understand that sometimes, a sense of humor is the best medicine for the heart.

We invite you to think about these ideas.

Healthy and free people have a tinge of pleasant madness

One of the greatest limitations that humans have is their rigidity in patterns and perspectives.

The inability to bring this flexibility of thought into our daily lives, because of which we are receptive and sensitive to everything that surrounds us, often limits our ability to be happy.

We were talking at the beginning of this article about the opposite of this healthy madness: bitterness. In reality, no one is born “sour”.

It is the circumstances and the way in which we face things that, little by little, we store resentment, and a certain bitterness.

• The fact of opening up to others and always ending up disappointed affects our confidence and makes us develop mistrust.
• Having high expectations in certain relationships or in certain dreams that sooner or later do not come true causes our dreams to die out.

Life is, above all, an attitude. The way we deal with good and bad things will allow us to be freer or, on the contrary, to cling to skepticism and lack of motivation.

Having an open and flexible mind helps us a lot. 

Now let’s see what are the defining components of people who have this enviable sweet madness.

People with healthy insanity accept the unexpected

It is not easy to accept the unexpected, the unforeseen, what happens without our having planned it and which is totally out of our control.

• People with healthy insanity have a strong tolerance for the unexpected because they see it as a challenge, and as an opportunity to get out of normality, to experiment and learn new things.
• Likewise, the unforeseen tests that mental flexibility we talked about at the start of this article. It helps us develop new strategies to deal with this unplanned act, something that we welcome with motivation and optimism because it is like a little challenge.

These people spread joy

“Crazy but healthy” people can seem a little irresponsible, even chaotic.

However, they know well what they are doing because they know themselves well, have self-confidence and have good self-esteem.

• Madness is that point where fear stops and where we let ourselves go. There is a balance between challenge and caution that captivates and serves as inspiration for the rest.
• If in your closest entourage you have a person who has this type of personality, surely they have put a lot of joy in your daily life, and they have surely taught you that it is better to dare than to stick with it. desire.
  Those who contain themselves later regret, and life, with a little madness and laughter, hurts much less.

People with healthy insanity live in the moment

Whoever lives centered on the past and on nostalgia, misses the present. And whoever focuses his life on the future has expectations in something that has not yet happened.

Whether you believe it or not, it is a very common mistake today: “we are missing out on the present”. We live on lists, to-do’s, and to-dos.

We cling to things that have happened or to facts that we need to realize. All of this only increases the anxiety.

• Conversely, people with healthy insanity allow themselves to disconnect from the past and the future in order to embrace the present moment as much as possible.
  They are receptive to all opportunities and launch themselves into them with boldness and positivism, in such a way that they often impress us.
• We call them “crazy” but in reality, they have a vital energy which feeds on a good inner stillness.

We must take them as inspiring people, and keep them around us because they make us smile, they give us impulses and invite us to get out of this little comfort zone where our fears are.

Dare, you too, to bring out this touch of healthy madness in you! Or maybe you already have it?